Q:Assalamu alaykum, is it haram to sext/send sexual pictures to your husband? Or to send him sexual text messages?
Anonymous
wa alaikum us salaam,
There’s nothing haraam with you being naked in front of your husband or posing in sexual ways or saying anything “naughty” to him, so long as it’s all done in private.
My concern is the security of the pictures. There’s nothing haraam in your husband seeing them, but the both of you should do everything within your powers to make sure no one else sees them.
Data storage is awful tricky, and even though files may be deleted and even the memory card itself reformatted, sometimes they can still be recovered.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that you should know your risks before you do something like this. And unfortunately I am not a computer/cell phone expert, so I can’t tell you what those risks are.
You should find out those risks before you make any decisions inshallah.
